This year has been full of changes and waiting. Lots of waiting and practicing the art of patience and faith that everything is always working out. Change happens just before a big expansion. When you have big goals and dreams there are going to be times that we go through big changes and it might feel like nothing is going right. Things are just shifting in your world to create space for your big life upgrades.

There will be times when everything comes to a screaming halt and all you have to do is sit and wait and integrate.

I have been quite proud of myself this year. I have been in these waiting periods before and I have not been so graceful. I have thrown tantrums and swore at the universe and cried and yelled (in my head) what the fuck do you want from me.

I was ready to write a blog and I still will, but it was going to be about when I took another courageous leap and left a toxic relationship to move interstate to help my mum care for my Dad who had dementia while dodging...

After some reflection on my life and the lessons that I have learned I really want to talk about truth. We all see life from our own perceptions and lenses based on the experiences that we have. We can also put out our own projections on what we think the reality is of a situation even when that might not be the truth. 

The definition of truth is the true or actual state of the matter. The definition of true is being in accordance with the actual state or conditions; conforming to reality or fact; not false.

So where do we get out of alignment with the truth? Is it when our reality is a certain way and we want it to be another way? What makes us not want to look at the truth? Is it because it’s so hurtful and not what we want to hear? 

I know that in the many situations where I have felt out of flow with life it is because I haven’t wanted to look at the truth of my reality. It’s not a fun space to be in but I know that those times were there to teach me....