What is your communication costing you?

I am feeling that this full moon is very much about speaking up about your needs and wants without getting too heady about how it is going to be received.

I have said to many of my clients and even coached myself to acknowledge that we don’t speak up to intentionally hurt other people so we show up with love for ourselves and respect for the other person. It can only be received in that way. If it’s met with resistance, anger and blame then that is a whole other ball game and could potentially make you feel unsafe to express your needs and wants. It takes discernment to know what your next steps to take are with your relationship with that person. 

I heard someone quote “The lack of communication leaves room for imagination.” I thought that this explains what happens in relationships. When we don’t communicate with each other there is a lot of room for overthinking rather than having a conversation with your partner to find out what they are actually thinking and what their intentions are. 

It works the other way. Your partner can’t show up or support you if you aren’t communicating what your needs and wants are. 

So what is stopping you from asking for what you need and want?

Do you feel that you are worthy of having a connected and loving relationship with your partner?

Are you not sure what you want and need and therefore can’t articulate it to your partner or yourself?

You are worthy and deserving of your dreams and desires. It’s time to own that and remove the obstacles that are in the way of you receiving it all. It all starts with the power of your voice. 

“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention.”

Is it a small act of kindness speaking from your heart and having a conversation with your partner so that you can return to the same page and align your lives and relationship together? You could have the biggest heartfelt intentions but it stays an intention unless it is backed up with some inspired action. That small act of kindness. 

The last thing that you want is to suppress your voice, your needs, your wants and become resentful that nothing is changing. I know you have the courage to look within and look at those things that you want that you think you can’t have because it hasn’t happened yet, bring them back into your awareness then voice your wants, needs and desires. 

The reward of doing the hard things definitely outweighs the short term discomfort of taking your inspired action. It also may have been built up in your mind to be something really hard or difficult but when you take the action you will wonder why you hadn’t done it sooner. 

So is your communication costing you your wants, needs and desires?

Are you ready to speak them into existence?

I would love to help you if you need support to connect with the deeper parts of yourself so you can embody unapologetic self-assurance. 

I have a four week soul transformation group coaching, starting on Tuesday 1st November. 

If you would like more details you can find them here.

It’s time to honour you. 

Michelle x